From Janne Robinson, we get a brutally frank discussion about the pulling forces when libido attempts to take the lead in your life. “Without love sex is like a grade six dance where our souls hold each other two feet away so we may engage at a distance- without the vulnerability, without the scariness, without intertwining our souls in salty, sweaty, sweet togetherness. The space between us makes it safe and also lacking of all the joy making love can be.” Well put- as is her advice: “Knowing our intent before we engage with another person is powerful and important. It’s never worth compromising your heart, or body if what you desire is not mutually shared with another person.“